For Surrogates

Become a Surrogate
Help Build a Family, Change a Life

Women Helping Women Become Surrogates, Every Step of the Way

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Introduction

At Advocates for Surrogacy, we believe surrogacy is one of the most profound gifts a woman can give. We are a team of women — walking beside you with compassion, care, and commitment. As a surrogate, you have the opportunity not only to change the lives of intended parents, but also to be supported, celebrated, and protected throughout your journey.

The Rewards of Becoming a Surrogate

  • Help a family achieve their dream of parenthood.
  • Form lasting connections with people whose lives you've transformed.
  • Receive financial rewards that recognize your extraordinary time and commitment.
  • Take pride in making a difference that lasts a lifetime.

Why Choose Advocates for Surrogacy

What makes the AFS experience different

Experienced Surrogacy Support

Our philosophy is rooted in supporting women who do something truly extraordinary. We are a team of highly experienced women passionate about walking this path with you.

Dedicated Surrogate Advocate

You will always have one dedicated advocate — our founder — guiding you 24/7 through calls, emails, and texts. Not an impersonal portal or a rotating staff.

Surrogate Legal Protection

We ensure contracts, escrow funding, insurance, and legal protections are securely in place before you ever move forward.

Compensation and Benefits

Our standard package is among the most generous in the field. More importantly, you have full control in setting the compensation and benefits that are right for you.

Surrogate Requirements (At a Glance)

Every surrogacy journey begins with making sure you meet a few basic guidelines:

  • Between the ages of 21 and 41 (sometimes up to 42 or 43)
  • Have given birth to at least one child with no complications during pregnancy
  • BMI (body mass index) of 32 or less (a few clinics will accept up to 35)
  • Healthy lifestyle — no smoking, recreational drugs, or alcohol abuse (nicotine and drug testing required)
  • No more than 2 c-sections (sometimes 3 is okay, depends on fertility doctor)
  • Reliable transportation
  • Not on public benefits such as Section 8 housing or disability (Medicaid and food stamps are okay, though we won't use your Medicaid for pregnancy care)
  • No history of postpartum depression
  • Not currently taking antidepressants or anxiety medications
  • No criminal history conviction (criminal history check required)
  • Must be a U.S. citizen

Ready to Find Out If You Qualify?

Take 2 minutes to complete our questionnaire and see if you meet the basic qualifications to become a surrogate.

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Have Questions About Becoming a Surrogate?

Our experienced team is here to guide you through every step of your surrogacy journey.

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